Nothingness

We join spokes together in a wheel,

But it is the center hole

That makes the wagon move.

We shape clay into a pot,

But it is the emptiness inside

That holds whatever we want.

We hammer wood for a house,

But it is the inner space

That makes it livable

We work with being,

But non-being is what we use.

(Lao Tzu)

   

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This week in "The Joy Diet" we have been working on doing nothing for 15 minutes everyday. The doing wasn't the difficult part, it was silencing the mind.

How hard can it be to just focus on breathing? I breath every single day without thinking about it and the moment I want to concentrate on it my mind flits all over. After a couple days of this I decided to show myself compassion.

Somewhere in my chattering mind the thought came how difficult it is to go from an active mind to a still mind isn't a logical progression. Everything in the natural world happens in stages. From day three on I decided instead of silencing my mind, I would observe it in the process of quieting down. There is such a beauty in the layers of the process and unveiling.

I also chose as my focal point a flower instead of my breath. This calmed my mind so I could observe the unfolding of quieting.

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 (Photo by Per Svangren)

I think,perhaps, there is also a myth that to do nothing means emptiness. I've discovered that all of the items in my mind are still there but I have created space around them. They have now taken on a different perspective, like viewing a bird from afar and seeing it up close.

As each item in my mind takes on less importance silence comes and is welcome.

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Comments

20 responses to “Nothingness”

  1. love your focal point! once you get the hang of nothing it becomes quite addictive ๐Ÿ™‚

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  2. Having a focal point other than breathing is important (it was for me) so I’m glad you’ve discovered something that soothes you while you are focusing.
    I also love that you decided to show yourself some compassion. It always interests me that we can show compassion to others and yet we are so stingy with it towards ourselves. I’m glad that you were able to recognize this and embrace yourself with compassion.

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  3. This is such a wonderful post! I really enjoyed your lovely bubble space. ๐Ÿ™‚ Have a lovely merry happy day and love to you!

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  4. hello from a fishy from the Fish bowl!
    I love your photos. So peaceful. I will come back soon to see more of it.

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  5. Beautiful focal point in the flower picture. I have a difficult time focusing on my breath also.

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  6. Great pics!
    I think it’s true, it’s a difficult way. Glad, we all can share it.
    See you neyt week!

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  7. I LOVE YOUR PICS! Wonderful peace. I enjoyed reading your post. I can’t wait to read what you say about the next chapter. Thanks for the comment on the doll. Keep smiling!

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  8. I really enjoyed your post. That is why I used the utube video to focal on to silence my mind and enjoy the view. The photos are great. I too love nature. See ya next week. Thank for stopping by.

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  9. Wonderful and inspiring.
    I love doing nothing in nature.

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  10. I think compassion is a key. Enjoyed your post and the photos. Here’s to more NOTHING!

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  11. How nice that you listened to your inner guidance and chose a flower as it resonated with you. Here’s to a week of discovering the Truth!

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  12. hello Valerie, and thank you for stopping by my blog!….wowsa, I feel like I have taken a little trip across the ocean here! I have a friend here in VT from Sweden, and she has a bunch of friends from Sweden her and well…it is fun to listen to them talk, even if I dont understand!
    yes, I am looking forward to class

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  13. The quote you shared at the beginning of this post is so beautiful. It made me tear up a little. Listening to your inner voice is such a wonderful tool. THank you so much for sharing your week of nothing.

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  14. I like the gradual movement from busy to still – as that is my experience. Photos of flowers are great reminders of how slowly beauty unfolds.
    Look forward to this week of truth.

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  15. Hi Valarie,
    thanks for visiting my blog!
    beautiful pictures! i have meditated on flowers opening- it helped me while in labor with my son, too.
    see you in the fish bowl!

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  16. Hi Valerie, I don’t know what The Joy Diet is, but I’ve recently taken up meditating, so I completely understand what you mean. One of the things I’m taking time to learn is that it’s ok when my mind wanders–it’s been a challenge to simply acknowledge that that’s what’s happening without judgment. And I completely agree that taking time out to do nothing, to just be present, is so fulfilling. Now I’m off to look up this joy diet!

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  17. So many gorgeous photos on your site. I loved taking a peek! I love your idea of focusing on a flower instead of my breath. I always feel I am hyperventilating when I focus too much on my breathing.
    Thanks for visiting my blog.

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  18. I,too, have trouble focusing on my breath – flowers as a focal point is a beautiful idea!!
    “As each item in my mind takes on less importance silence comes and is welcome” – YES, Wonderful!!

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  19. I love that! Observing the unfolding of quieting! What an awesome way of progressing! ๐Ÿ™‚

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  20. Love this post and the images. I like the idea of the focal point for meditation!

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