Desires

Here we are week three of The Joy Diet. Wow a lot to think about in this chapter and many layers to unveil.

While continuing to go through all of the exercises in this chapter the one desire that kept coming up over and over again was that of service and usefulness. Humbly and gratefully I can tell you that I've experienced much and have been afforded many opportunities. From all of these experiences, I would like to make the last half of my life one of servitude. I just want to leave this planet and the people who live on it a little better off because I was here.

Martha talks about quickening. It's the moment a desire becomes an intention. It's something that captures the truth from deep within us. It's as if our desires have their own agendas. All we can do is wait and wonder and cherish the "joy ride."

There are a couple of instances this happens to me. The first is with books. Oh how I love books. I can't remember a time in my life without books. Books are a shared and cherished commodity in this house. They are meant to be savored and experienced. Some time ago I realized that not every child has adults in their lives who love reading. So I'm a huge advocate of children's literacy. Doing interventions with at risk readers as well as just sitting and reading to someone makes my day. My desire is to contribute somehow, in a really big way, to literacy. So this idea is spawning itself and as it does so I will just continue doing what I'm doing.

The second situation where I get a joy buzz is helping women and children. I sponsor several women with Women for Women as well as sponsor female business owners at Kiva. Just knowing that my little bit of contribution is making a huge difference in someones life makes me extremely happy. Each woman I sponsor is able to write to me. There is a human connection and so many areas I can relate to such as being a mother.

I've been reading this book called,"Half the Sky". These women have lived hellish lives and rise up like a phoenix to be role models for their families and communities. After each heart rendering story I feel inspired that whatever I have to give will make a difference. I'm convinced that I have a responsibility to my global community to be a part of it and interact with it.

I'll be interested to see where these little glimmers of "desire" will take me. I'm sure it will be an interesting journey.

What inspires you? What's your life's desire?

International women's day


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16 responses to “Desires”

  1. I can really understand you. The quote “Be the change you wish to see in the world” is always on my mind.
    The book theme is important. I live with a man who comes out of a family of non-readers. So is he and his two brothers and so are ALL children of them, only my daughter is not, because in our house are books in every room! Reading was my first love and it will be my last.
    It’s true, only reading parents will have reading children.

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  2. Love your collage of pictures – reflects things really well

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  3. What a gorgeous collage of pictures and words you put together here. I just reserved my copy of The Joy Diet from the Library, and I am anxious to read it.
    I think that what inspires me the most is to see women uplifting and encouraging other women. Not from pity, but from that place inside of themselves that feels the connection to another woman, and reaches out to ensure that person has a hand in their journey.
    Women have been pitted against one another for so many generations, that the idea of support, and of assistance is so positive in my mind.
    I really enjoyed reading your post today (as I do everyday), and I hope that you will continue to write on this wonderful journey that you are taking

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  4. I was just chatting with a co-worker this morning about our love for reading and how we have set an example for our children. One of the greatest gifts that I have given my son is the love for reading. Last night when I was working on my post for today, he was lying down engrossed in the book, “To Kill a Mockingbird.” It is precious to seem my 13-year old boy so into stories. Our lives are great adventures. Thank you for sharing your true desires

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  5. I love this post and I love that you want to make the last half of your life about servitude. To give to others, to make things happen so that other people’s lives are richer and fuller…that is something wonderful to aspire to.

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  6. What beautiful work you do, and what sweet, powerful desires you have. The simple gift of your presence already makes a profound impact in the world…
    all that you do is the cherry on top! ๐Ÿ™‚

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  7. Love your post. Thanks.

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  8. Thank you for sharing your desires. They definitely resonated. As someone also looking at the second half of my life, I want to do something meaningful with it. So great that this group is happening at this time for me.

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  9. Such beautiful images. It seems desire is leading you to a very exciting place!

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  10. beautiful images and beautiful thoughts. what an inspiring post, and it makes me wanna pick up a book to start reading again. ๐Ÿ™‚ nature and life itself inspires me in many parts of my life. i’m not the ambitious type at all… i just believe that we all have a purpose in life, why we were put on this earth at this moment in time…while we’re here, be happy, thankful, and always stay hopeful…make life a little better for those around us (or even strangers we never would meet again) when we can. might sound abit cliche, but i truly believe life is about loving and giving. ๐Ÿ™‚ big hugs to you, my dear fellow fishies xoxo! ๐Ÿ™‚

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  11. What an awesome collage of strong women and lovely children! What a noble desire! May you make the lives of many better! ๐Ÿ™‚

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  12. Valerie,
    I am truly inspired by you and your lovely words. I have just ordered my own copy of Half the Sky. Thank you for this post.

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  13. I love your collage ๐Ÿ™‚

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  14. Keep on reading LaWendula. I’m so glad we share this love. Take care.

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  15. That is a great book and a favorite around here. Our lives are great adventures, here’s to yours.

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  16. Thank you Lisa, I appreciate so much your kind words.

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