We knew a day would come when "O" would become an only child. With both sisters in college our sweet boy is all on his own. Though he talks to both sisters daily, it isn't the same as having them in the house and sharing time with them. "Do the days seem longer to you mom?" he asks.

The other a day a box arrived for him from his sister Mimi. He ran all the way up from the mailbox so he could hurry up and open it.

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Inside was a bag of his favorite japanese candy and a wrapped present.

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I was the one who was surprised at Mimi's choice of a gift. It was her favorite book ever and lovingly inscriped with her memory of this book.

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As a mom I was worried how my children would keep in touch throughout the years. Would it whittle down to visits on holidays and vacations only? It is so heart-warming to know that one way they have chosen to stay connected is through their love of books.

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20 responses to “A Sister’s Gift”

  1. julie Avatar

    Oh Valarie how wonderful.
    BIG Sister and little brother love is v.special 🙂
    You must be v.proud of your children and all credit to you, children live what they learn.
    Have a blessed weekend
    LOVE PEACE enJOY
    Julie
    xx

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  2. Down Comforter Avatar

    Awww..What a sweet big sister..
    Great book too,I loved it when I was a kid

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  3. AG Ambroult Avatar

    so darn sweet! I love reading about this new phase in your parenting.
    Speaking of new phases: as you know both my girls are in all day school now, and I remember you once commented that the days will fly by. Boy were you ever right! It’s true that I get lots of work done but before I know it, it’s time to pick them up. And of course by then I miss them so much…

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  4. gardenmama Avatar

    this post brought tears to my eyes and warmth to my heart valarie!
    these photos and sentiments are precious, what a beautiful family you have xo

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  5. Gypsy Forest Avatar

    This is so beautiful….. and a hope of hopes in my house too…. there are 10 years between my oldest and youngest….. and one day we too will have the last sweet boy at home while the others have flown the coop….. how strange it must be. And also very heartwarming to see what their relationship will become.

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  6. Mousy Brown Avatar

    This brought a tear to my eye too – how proud of them you must be. What a wonderful precious and thoughtful gift – one to treasure! While ‘O’ must miss his sisters I am guessing he is loving special time with you….and you with him! Have a lovely weekend, big hugs xxx

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  7. Linda Avatar

    Dear Valarie
    This was such a wonderful post, beautiful:)
    xo
    Linda

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  8. Jacqueline Avatar

    Dearest Valarie, this is such a beautiful post and it made me a little misty. My relationship with my elders have never been good nor are we closed…sometimes i wish it could be different. However, i’m lucky to have a better and loving relationship with my younges sister and brothers. Have a lovely merry happy weekend and love to you!

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  9. Kate England Avatar

    Oh Valarie, how very moving… I’m sitting here blinking off tears on my eyelashes…

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  10. Valarie Budayr Avatar

    Thank you Julie for your very kind words. Hope all is well.

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  11. Valarie Budayr Avatar

    She is a sweet big sister. When we talk about classics in books this is one of them. I still just love it.

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  12. Valarie Budayr Avatar

    Isn’t it amazing how quickly the day goes. I started planning my days out the night before so I can pack in them what I need to get done. Enjoy this new phase of your life. I find at the end of the day we have so many things to share.

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  13. Valarie Budayr Avatar

    You are so kind. thank you for these very thoughtful words.

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  14. Valarie Budayr Avatar

    I’m enjoying watching all three of my children grow into their “new” relationships with eachother. It’s going much better than I could have imagined.

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  15. Valarie Budayr Avatar

    Hi Em. We had a great weekend. Now I’m heading over to you. hugs back at you.

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  16. Valarie Budayr Avatar

    It’s wonderful to hear that you are so close to your younger sister and brother. I hope you got a lot of crafting done this weekend. Big hugs to you.

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  17. Valarie Budayr Avatar

    We had a great weekend. It was so wonderful to have everyone under one roof.

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  18. rae Avatar

    this is so seriously sweet! what a lovely job you have done of fostering a strong and loving connection between your family. happy autumn!!

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  19. Valarie Budayr Avatar

    Thank you Rae. The outcome is what I have wanted but they have initiated it themselves. It’s so fun to watch this new phase in their relationships unfold.

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